연리지 · YEONRIJI
Sound familiar?

“We understand each other perfectly” — almost every couple believes it. But small mismatches pile up in silence: each of you is sure you get the other, with no way to check — and it usually surfaces only in a fight. The understanding index shows you, calmly and early, exactly where you misread each other — not in words, but on concrete questions.

Understanding index

How well do you two really know each other?

See how the other person answers. They do the same for you — and you both see how well you actually knew.

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No sign-up · Answers unlock only for both of you

Question 3 / 12Guess first
How will they handle a big purchase?
Research it and sit on it for days
Buy it right away if they think it's worth it
Ask me before deciding
Your guess stays hidden until the end.
7 of 12 · 4 of 12two different results, not one score
A new closeness index · track your dynamics · for any pair
While you wait
Your elements by birth dateThe five elements 五行 (wu xing) and how yours combine. 20 seconds, no second person needed.
How it works

Three steps, two different results

01Answer the questionsFor each one you pick your own answer and guess how the other person will answer.
02Send the linkThey open the link and take the same questions — about 90 seconds, nothing to install.
03See the result togetherThe index shows how well your guesses matched the real answers, and where each of you missed.
How accurately you read each other
7 of 12you know the other
4 of 12the other knows you
the result is sealed only once both of you are done

A map of blind spots

We don't score who did better. The result shows what each of you missed — and that's usually the thing worth talking about.

What you missedThe other is more likely to postpone a big purchase than decide alone.
What the other missedYou hold worry in for a long time before saying it.
Over time

Track your dynamics

Your index is saved each time. Play again in a month or two and see whether you’ve grown closer — or where it’s worth talking.

586674Example: how the index climbs over time
Five elements
水木Water and wood: one observes, the other acts. Birth date is optional.
Compatibility by birth dates →

Now you can measure understanding

The understanding index isn’t a one-off test. Come back in a month and watch your closeness grow. It works not just for couples — for a friend, family or a colleague too.

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